Why every people-pleaser needs a “villain era”

No, this doesn’t mean “Leave your principles behind and try to cause chaos wherever you go”, it means “Learn to prioritize yourself and stand tall in honor of your individuality”.

This concept is often misunderstood as a shift in mentality towards imposing revenge against the world for all the trauma it has caused us over the years. Absolutely not. It represents a recalibration of the self, a proud expression of one’s boundaries, and, often, a refreshing revamp in lifestyle, dress, and attitude.